Aside from a barbeque, we used to get together "Eat and relax" where Jewish people come together in small groups to eat and to relax. These gatherings purpose was to allow frum people to play games and wind down after work. It was not a 'singles' thing per se, but of course good things can always happen.
It was once a week and later once every 2 weeks at 8PM. In the past it was held in the Seaview Jewish Center of Canarsie and then in Flatbush or Queens depending on the week.
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